SOON YOU WILL UNDERSTAND

I can’t help it … It’s crazy, I don’t even think I love him. I get him… but the past few years made me realize that it isn’t love at all. This is something most people won’t understand. I do…I understand that he will never fully love me the way I need to be love, I also realize it’s not just me, he will never fully commit to anyone for that matter…After I removed all emotions from the situation , I got over the Idea that my love would over power him and I learned to respect him for who he is. A Selfish, sensitive yet insensitive person!

See …one thing my heart has taught me, people connect on different levels and everyone is not meant to live happily ever after…therefore you should enjoy the moment for what it is or not at all. Let people be who they are. Everyone wants honesty, loyalty and truth but then they want to dictate in what form it comes in.

I know, I know….people are quick to say “YOU ARE STUPID” , “IT COULDN’T BE ME” , “YOU ARE SETTLING” or here’s a good one… “YOU ARE DICMATIZED”!!!

Expectation is the most disappointing thing when it comes to feelings, so with that said, I say do what ever makes you happy because at the end of the day everyone else is… just make sure to be responsible for your actions .

So what if I tell you, “ I get It now” and the best part of loving someone is to let them be free. You will find that things are less stressful , infact you will see just exactly where the other party heart truly is.

I can hear you calling me naive… After years of trying to make a person love only me… I learned that whenever you are trying to cage someone up, he or she will eventually escape to a place where they feel free.

It is funny how some people come up with the rule for who is worthy of love and who isn’t. Just because a situation works for one doesn’t mean that it will work for you.

Whatever is meant to be will be and you will never have to control, fight or force it!

Sincerely ,

Sour Apples and Dip Sticks