How Long Is Too Long To Wait For The Goodies?

This is a touchy topic for some. Fellas we as women want to know what is too long of a waiting period before having sex? And If a woman chose to give her self to you on the first night , Will you still respect her ? Double standards are truly high when it comes to situations like these…Often the women always look bad and labeled and “the men are just being men”!

Ladies I feel like it doesn't make you a bad person if all you want to do is knock him off and keep it pushing. Sometimes things just don’t work out …he may not have lived up to your expectation or whatever the case could have been…I think it is only fair to say that men can be just as insecure as women these days. I would like to know from a males perspective on his experience of being a “ hit it and quit it “ victim.

Now we all know that Steve Harvey says waiting 90 days is that too long. Just because you wait that long does that make you wifey material? Truth be told there is no time limit that can secure the out come of how a situation will play out, anytime you give yourself to someone you run the risk of being used,played or whatever. You have to take the chance and the time to make sure this is what you really want to do. We can never be sure but we can say we put some thought into it in hopes of lessening any regrets. Most importantly do not …I repeat do not allow the man to pressure you out of your goodies!