Double Standards or Double Talk?!

Oh yeah, ladies we all know that a man doesn't want mouthy woman. A man is so easily embarrassed, a man doesn't like to be put on the spot in front of his friends etc.... But how quickly will a man call you out your name, talk down to you and tell your business when ever they feel like it. Saying to you, " You make a big deal out of everything!" How can a man disrespect and hurt any woman, justifying it by classify women into different categories. But if you call a man how you see them, rather they are liars, cheaters, thieves and so on, the woman is the one who is wrong!

But A Man Would Say... LOL THIS HERE IS PRICELESS! Ok, women are put into different categories. Let’s be real. Every woman has a minimum 3 different characters inside of them. And the thing about women is they will use each at any given moment to win. As much as a man doesn’t want to look weak, a woman does not want to EVER EVER EVER be wrong. Women will fight, kick, threaten, lie, scheme, and cheat just so they won’t be wrong. With that said the name- calling can occur in many different situations. Let’s go right to the B-word. There are many different instances where a man will use this word. In more of your urban communities the B-word is used in the open during conversation and joking. In many relationships it is an accepted sort of play name used during calm n playful moments. Now when you have these type of situations the B-word will carry over to an argument or and adjective used to get the man’s point across. In the bedroom some women like to be manhandled and the B-word becomes acceptable. If your man calls you the B-word as your name and you answer...again don’t complain. Also if you are involved with a thug, gangster, or dope boy you know exactly what the protocol is. Any other names may be the result of you actions. If you’re behaving like a hoe, slut, cheat, backstabber...etc. then there you are who you be. Women can’t be acting up and then getting all sensitive when a colorful adjective or noun is used to address them. Life is not “Girlfriends, Let’s Stay Together, or The Game” or any other show that portrays men as weak punching bags. The woman is not right just because she is the woman. She or the man is right because they are right. All this “You know how I am” stuff women talk to excuse bad behavior is crazy. Now add in the multiple personalities that women possess and you have a recipe for name-calling. Whether it’s playful or serious usually a man will go by the character the woman is playing. But when fed up with role-playing and getting attacked by 3 different versions of the same woman...then hell yea the woman will be everything but the name her parents gave her.