Truth Be Told PartII

"I'm bored".... " She don't like to try anything new"..." I'm just there for the kids", or "I’m just looking for a friend". These are some of the things you may have heard a married man or a man that is in a relationship say.

Oh yeah…you knew I was coming back with my male version of my last blog "Truth Be Told". So this is part two.

So, the statistics states 60% of married men and 40% of married women will have an affairs. Now, I touched on this topic in an earlier blog I wrote titled "State Of Bliss". So I'm going to curve this piece and go out on a limb and ask, "why do men have such a short attention span" and "why are they so easily bored"? I can also go out on that same limb and tell you just what I think.

1.) Some men marry to have that "Huxtable" picture life, giving the illusion that they have their shit together.

2.) Maybe it truly is cheaper to keep her. But as soon as they think no one can see them they hawking that chick with the video vixen body and ways! Don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with looking but some men are just plain ol' weak! Drowning in curiosity…knowing damn well it kills the cat (or dog)!… and truthfully temptation is purely powerful…however you look at it, some men just don't have a faithful bone in their body and they think that is a natural man thing.

Most of these men have seen their fathers, their grandfathers and or their uncles behave in this manner. There is no proof that this behavior is genetic. They lie for each other, cover for each other and at the end of the day feel offended when you call them out on their BS! Yeah I know you want to call me "bitter" and ask me "who hurt me" but that's not the case, I'm telling you what I've learned based off of my own experience and others around me.

I can also say that some women play mind games to see if she can get something she knows she's not suppose to have or they fall for the man's "I'm not happy at home line" an assume she might be a better fit for him or she can give him what his wife is lacking. Not being smart enough to know that nothing can make a man stay anywhere he doesn't want to be. Either way he choses to run game, his weak ass loses every time!

For some reason "taken" guys always want to approach me. I believe I am so open they think I would be more understanding to their foolishness. Maybe they prey on the one they think wouldn't mind or that woman that is always screaming " Imma do me"! Now I can't lie… I felt this way at one point of time but after analyzing this concept and even trying to rationalize it by saying "some women have done it to me". At the end of the day I had to sum it up to my self worth and what I deserve.

I believe men go through a stage where they want to have something to brag about with the fellas…or just to see if he still has it. Men also want to have their egos stroked and experience the adrenaline of feeling like they are getting away with something.

I've heard some men say they avoid temptation by not being in certain atmospheres or positions… but it is absolutely impossible to avoid the opposite sex. It's impossible to avoid the little things women might do for attention, like showing cleavage, smelling good or having a well-portioned body that you can't help but notice…. Can you honestly say you can't hear 2 Chainz voice in the back of your head saying "One Time Is Fine With Me"! ?

Truth of the matter is men need just as much of attention as a woman does! Men are becoming bolder and bolder as certain things are accepted in the new age way of living. Like threesomes, going to strip clubs and forgiveness after previous adultery act. None of this stuff is new… it's just women don't want to fight about it anymore…1) Their either doing the same thing, 2) They have accepted the clichés fact that all men cheat or 3) the fear of being alone!

A man will only do what you allow him to do and ladies being bored is not a good enough reason to help him break his vows.